5. The Art of ListeningIf some guy came up to you and said, look,I got $30 million in a cave somewhere. I've got five minutes to live. Can'twrite it down. We don't have any recording equipment. So I'm going to tell youthis one time and this one time only how to get. To the treasure. Now, how muchconcentration do you think you would have on that information?[00:00:36] You need to listen to yourpartner with that same sense of detail and passion. And if you're listen, likethey're trying to send you to a million dollar treasure, you will in fact findthat million dollar treasure. Because good love over a long period of time is amillion dollars worth a happy, I believe that.[00:01:01] Hi, I'm judge Lynn Toler. Andwelcome to that conversation. The pod course in which I help you learn to talkto the person that you're in love with today's episode is going to be calledthe art of listening. You know, I spent 13 years on the bench on divorce courtand we flew couples in from all over...