0.Introducing That Conversation
0.介紹那次談話

 

Hi, I'm judgeLynn Toler. And I want to talk to you about how to talk to the person you're inlove with if I've learned nothing else. In 13 years, as the judge on divorcecourt in 32 years of marriage. And while writing my book, making marriage work,it's the communication in the context of a romantic relationship can be a verycomplicated thing.
嗨，我是林恩·托勒法官。我想和你談談，如果我什麼都没學到，怎麼和你愛的人說話。在13年的婚姻生活中，擔任離婚法庭法官32年。當我寫這本書的時候，讓婚姻成功，在浪漫關系中的交流是一件非常復雜的事情。

 

 

It's payingbills, making meals, according compromise, handling hurt, conveying needs, orsimply seeking satisfying sex. The easiest way to get those things done isthrough effective communication. That's what this pod course is all about init. I will discuss how to establish good communication habits before problemsever start.
它是付賬單，做飯，妥協，處理傷害，傳達需求，或者僅僅是尋求滿足的性生活。完成這些事情最簡單的方法就是通過有效的溝通。這就是這個吊艙課程的全部內容。我將討論如何在問題開始之前建立良好的溝通習慣。

 

 

I'll also tacklethe most common issues people have in this department. We'll talk about thebest way, way to start a hard conversation, how to avoid getting stuck, havingthe same argument over and over again. We'll cover the ways to end adisagreement. So it brings you together as opposed to pulling you apart.
我還將解決這個部門中最常見的問題。我們將討論最好的方式，開始艱難對話的方式，如何避免陷入困境，反復發生同樣的爭論。我們將討論結束分歧的方法。所以它把你們聚在一起而不是把你們分開。

 

 

We'll work onusing communication to build love, respect, and a solid foundation. We'll talkabout all the subtle emotional things that can help you get that done and last,but certainly by no means, least we'll talk about the best ways to communicateacross the great hormonal divide. You know what
我們將利用溝通來建立愛、尊重和堅實的基礎。我們將討論所有能幫助你完成並持續下去的微妙的情感因素，但絕對不是，至少我們將討論跨越荷爾蒙鴻溝的最佳溝通方式。你知道嗎

I'm talking about?
我在說什麼？

 

 

The differencebetween how men and women think speak, perceive and feel relationships aren'teasy that said effective communication is one of the most useful tools you canhave to help you maintain a good one. This pile, of course, it's dedicated tothe proposition of making you a master of this very important skill.
男人和女人在思考、說話、感知和感受人際關系方面的區别並不容易，有效的溝通是幫助你維持良好關系的最有用的工具之一。這一堆，當然，它致力於讓你成為這個非常重要的技能的大師。

 

 

So let's you andI sit down and talk about it. So the next time you talk to the person you love,you can get it right.
我們坐下來談談吧。所以下次你和你愛的人說話的時候，你可以說對了。

 

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