As children grow, they move through different stages of development on the journey to adulthood. As their yearning for individuality emerges and especially as they reach late teens, early twenties the relationship with them begins to change. It can be very challenging and anxiety-provoking tothe parent to step out of their directive role into a more adult to adult relationship. What used to be a comfortable, familiar relationship is let go and new dynamics emerge for relating to your adult child as an equal. How especially in moments of stress can I deal with this person in the present rather than falling back into old relating dynamics and reactive, uninvitedadvice-giving? It can be challenging to reinvent our relationship with our kids but if we can push through the discomfort, amazing things can be achieved!