This week, Raya is joined by Christina Kim - an LA-based sugar baby, entrepreneur, and founder of Agency LA. Christina and Raya discuss the misconceptions around sugaring and the importance of giving the right information for women interested in seeking arrangements. Christina explains why she decided to become a sugar baby herself, as well as how it has propelled her to live out her most authentic life - and become the CEO of a company. Christina and Raya also discuss the importance of knowing the risks involved and how to be confident and set boundaries in order to set yourself up for success in the world of sugaring. Check out Christina's agency for arrangements at agencyla.co and learn more on her TikTok channel here. For more Raya follow @rayacarmona & @wasthatgoodforyou on IG. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya is joined by LA-based comedian and podcast host Yamini Nambimadom. Yamini takes Raya through her almost year-long relationship that started during the pandemic and has been entirely had via Zoom, texting & FaceTime. They also chat about how quarantine has helped people learn to be more honest, set boundaries, and possibly may even lead to safer sex. Listen to Yamini's podcast here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode!For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya is joined by Portia - the founder & creator of Froetic Sexology. Portia and Raya discuss the ways in which they were taught about sex as well as how it can be improved for generations going forward. Portia explains how to bring mindfulness and meditation practices into sexual experiences, and how it can lead to even better orgasms. Portia and Raya also dive deep into the importance of looking at sex as a co-creative experience versus a performance, which they find many women and femmes struggle with. Learn more from Portia here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya is joined by Charles & Shelley Wininger. Over the past 20 years, Charley, 71 years old, and Shelley, 69 years old, have found MDMA to act as a kind of romantic glue for them. They've used it intentionally to enhance and deepen their bond, with its positive effects on their marriage accumulating over time. They explain that they’ve done MDMA carefully and responsibly together over 70 times. We chat through how the drug has rejuvenated them both emotionally and sexually as they’ve entered their senior years. Get a copy of Listening To Ecstacy here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
For the season 3 premiere of Was That Good For You?, Raya chats with porn collage artist Lisa Be and photographer Rina Mov to discuss what it means to be a "nasty woman." They debate the best time to start being open about bodily functions with a new partner as well as the standards women are held to when it comes to those things. They also discuss why men are uncomfortable around women who openly like sex and even swap stories of the times they've had to get "nasty" in front of their sexual partners. For more Lisa & Rina Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya talks with BDSM educator & 24/7 collared submissiveLina Duneto dispel some myths surrounding BDSM and the kink community, including how safe it is, how it stresses consent and communication, and how aspects of kink can help with everyone's sexual experiences, even those not interested in BDSM. Check out Lina's Patreon here! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya is joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's found himself through his music, including not conforming to any gender or sexuality norms and even the subject matter he sings about, as well as how this personal exploration has actually led to healthier relationships. Listen to Bonavega's music here! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Raya is joined by musician almondmilkhunni to discuss her dating life and explosive career, the pressure she feels from being on social media, and how she became a de facto voice for dancers and sex workers. Almondmilkhunni also weighs in on the divide among OnlyFans users and she explains why she avoids dating men whose sign is cancer. Listen to almondmilkhunni's music here: https://open.spotify.com/artist/778bhPsYwr6sAELsBBX8MC?si=TRtIl2gaSG--bHqz-hBktw As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visitingbetterhelp.com/goodforyou! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail....
This week, Raya talks with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kasselto chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explains where and how a beginner user can start incorporating toys, and gives her recommendations for toys you may have never heard of. Gabrielle and Raya also discuss Doomsturbating, talking about sex outside of the bedroom, and how Covid may make conversations about STI testing easier in the future. Sex Toys & Companies mentioned on this episode: Cute Little Fuckers Fun Factory Le Wand Bow Stainless Steel Toy INTRODUCING: Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, writer and polyamory ethical non-monogamy resource Gabrielle Smith talks with Raya about how to navigate opening a relationship to polyamory and/or ethical non-monogamy and how to set appropriate boundaries to ensure success in your relationship. They discuss the issues that don't allow people to comprehend opening a relationship, including insecurity and pressure, and why we're conditioned societally to think that jealousy is just a part of being with someone. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visitingbetterhelp.com/goodforyou! Resources on polyamory and ENM mentioned on this episode: Michelle AKA Polyamorous While Asian GabAlexa Shrimp Teeth Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Le...